As a guy wanting to meet girls and hoping for a more serious relationship there is one thing you really need to do. Get yourself sorted out.

When speaking of a school as an institution we might ask, "Is it a good school?". We expect to find good teaching, good curriculum, good facilities, good leadership, and a positive learning environment. We need to have the same sorts of expectations of the 'school of life' in which most learning needs to take place.

The period of youth/young adulthood is a pathway 'from puberty to matrimony'. As a community we should be able to ensure that every young person will experience it as a 'pathway of hope'.